Monday, March 16, 2015

Critics. Their Sad, Toxic Hobby



Critics. Their Sad, Toxic Hobby
Kerry Doyal

Critics
Critics with checklists on clipboards
Clicking off criticism
Checking off complaints
Cliques of critics
Coffee clutches clucking, critiquing, condemning.

Content to be discontent.
No,  vindicated by others failings,  deficiencies.

Silent “ah ha's!” Proof!
Cumulative complaints
Unforgettable failings. Again.
Collected.
Cataloged obvious communal concerns

Unspoken directly
Finding fault,  faults.
Storing them away as treasures,  tools, trophies.

Waiting.
Biding time to unfurl the banner or truth.
Gotcha! See.

Assuming.
Not bothering to clarify
More damning evidence.
More notes taken.

Withering.
Loneliness
Isolation... all around

Community hindered
Unity splintered
Purpose thwarted
Mission mangled
Servants crippled

God dishonored


 Kerry Doyal
(both guilty and victim)
Jan 2015

Sunday, March 15, 2015

Growing from a “To Do” List? Pray!



Gleaning & Growing from a  “To Do”  List?
“First of all, Pray for… so that…”  (from 1 Timothy 2)

            What could we possibly gain spiritually from someone else’s “to do” list?  Depending on the list, plenty! Paul begins his first letter to Timothy reminding him why he left him in Ephesus. He was to bring deeper health & stability to the church in Ephesus. Along with establishing elders & deacons (3:1ff) and taking care of widows (5:9ff), Timothy would need to courageously face down some erring, side-tracked teachers. There is much we can grow from by studying the “to do” list Paul gives Timothy. We can even deeply benefit from the first “to do”.

            “First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, 2 for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. 3 This is good, and it is pleasing in the sight of God our Savior, 4 who desires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time. 7 For this I was appointed a preacher and an apostle (I am telling the truth, I am not lying), a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth.”  (1 Timothy 2:1-7 -  ESV)

            “First of all, then…”? This assumes background, context:  “As I urged you when I was going to Macedonia, remain at Ephesus so that you may charge certain persons not to teach any different doctrine, nor to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies, which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith. The aim of our charge is love…  This charge I entrust to you, Timothy, my child, in accordance with the prophecies previously made about you, that by them you may wage the good warfare, holding faith and a good conscience.”  (1 Tim. 1:3-5, 18, 19 - ESV)


“First” on the “To Do” list:  “Make Prayer”!

Make Prayers:  “produce, construct”

Ø  In all kind of ways
o   Supplications: requests based on needs
o   Prayers: regular, formal, communal, worshipful, humble praise
o   Intercessions:  for others.  “a conference or conversation; a petition”
o   Thanksgivings:  (Gk.: εὐχαριστίας – eucharist-)

Ø  For all kinds of people – all mankind


Ø  For all kinds of leaders: “kings… all in high positions” – rulers, authorities, superiors


Ø  For God-honoring lives: stable, settled, fully devout & respectful
o    “that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life,
o    godly and dignified in every way.”


Such a Life of Making Prayer:
            Is good / beautiful & acceptable to God

            Is part of His gospel work 

            Recognizes and utilizes Christ’s mediator role

            Helps in the ministry of others


Life Application from Timothy’s “to do” list…  You tell me!      (a hint: “Let us pray!)  




Three More Versions for further Meditation & Study:

1 Timothy 2 (MSG)  2:1-3 The first thing I want you to do is pray. Pray every way you know how, for everyone you know. Pray especially for rulers and their governments to rule well so we can be quietly about our business of living simply, in humble contemplation. This is the way our Savior God wants us to live.

4-7 He wants not only us but everyone saved, you know, everyone to get to know the truth we’ve learned: that there’s one God and only one, and one Priest-Mediator between God and us—Jesus, who offered himself in exchange for everyone held captive by sin, to set them all free. Eventually the news is going to get out. This and this only has been my appointed work: getting this news to those who have never heard of God, and explaining how it works by simple faith and plain truth.

8-10 Since prayer is at the bottom of all this, what I want mostly is for men to pray—not shaking angry fists at enemies but raising holy hands to God. And I want women to get in there with the men in humility before God, not primping before a mirror or chasing the latest fashions but doing something beautiful for God and becoming beautiful doing it.    The Message


1 Timothy 2 (NLT)   2 I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them. 2 Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority so that we can live peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity. 3 This is good and pleases God our Savior, 4 who wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth. 5 For,

There is one God and one Mediator who can reconcile God and humanity—the man Christ Jesus. 6 He gave his life to purchase freedom for everyone.

This is the message God gave to the world at just the right time. 7 And I have been chosen as a preacher and apostle to teach the Gentiles this message about faith and truth. I’m not exaggerating—just telling the truth.

8 In every place of worship, I want men to pray with holy hands lifted up to God, free from anger and controversy.

9 And I want women to be modest in their appearance. They should wear decent and appropriate clothing and not draw attention to themselves by the way they fix their hair or by wearing gold or pearls or expensive clothes. 10 For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do.
New Living Translation


1 Timothy 2 (NASB)   2 First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, 2 for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. 3 This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior, 4 who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth. 5 For there is one God, and one mediator also between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave Himself as a ransom for all, the testimony given at the proper time. 7 For this I was appointed a preacher and an apostle (I am telling the truth, I am not lying) as a teacher of the Gentiles in faith and truth.

8 Therefore I want the men in every place to pray, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and dissension.

9 Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments, 10 but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness.   New American Standard Bible

Remind God’s Forgetful Folks: Focus on Jesus!



Remind  God’s  Forgetful, Feuding People: 
Focus  on  Jesus!
2 Tim. 2:14-19

            Fess up:  what’s the dumbest argument you ever had over what later proved to be unimportant? We have all had heated, protracted debates and quarrels over things that seemed life or death. However, with a little more time, maturity and humility, we realize that “big hairy deal” was a mere trifling. Sigh…

            “Quarreling about words” can harm relationships. It can also hinder and taint our service to God and others; its impact can be catastrophic! Remembering what is truly important can help prevent harmful, silly word-spats. Thus, after telling Timothy to stay mindful of Jesus Christ and the gospel, Paul urges him to remind others to also remember and stay focused on core matters (i.e. Jesus!).


                Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers. Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth. But avoid irreverent babble, for it will lead people into more and more ungodliness,  and their talk will spread like gangrene. Among them are Hymenaeus and Philetus, who have swerved from the truth, saying that the resurrection has already happened. They are upsetting the faith of some. But God's firm foundation stands, bearing this seal: “The Lord knows those who are his,” and, “Let everyone who names the name of the Lord depart from iniquity.”   (2 Tim. 2:14-19  -  ESV)


Remind Them:  Stay Mindful of  Jesus!
2 Tim. 2:14-19

            God’s people have a long, ugly history of forgetting and feuding. We lose sight of the Lord – loving, serving Him - and we debate silliness, drifting into error and sin. Forgetting the Eternal One, temporal stuff and hurtful bickering takes over. Like Jesus observed, we neglect weightier matters; straining out gnats but swallowing camels (Matt. 23:23, 24). Gulp!  Facing martyrdom, Paul is further preparing Timothy for ongoing ministry. He reminds him to remember Jesus and then to help others keep Him in focus too.

Reminding  God’s  Forgetful,  Fighting  People:

First, Personally Stay Mindful of Jesus, His Gospel (vs. 1-13) 
            Keep Ministry Grace-filled & Personal – Pass it on (1, 2)

            Live to Please Your Commanding Officer  (3-7)         

            In Your Soldiering, Don’t Forget Who & Why! (8-13; 1 Cor. 2:1, 2)

            Practice godly mnemonics. Remember Jesus Christ:
God’s Savior & Messiah: “Jesus Christ” (Matt. 1) 
Master over Death! “risen from the dead” (1 Cor. 15; Rev. 1)
Fulfillment of God’s Promise: “…of David” (2 Sam. 7:12-16)
Our Message! “as preached in my gospel” (Col. 1:28, 29; 1 Cor. 15:1-8)
Our Meaning, the Why! “for which I am suffering… I endure”
He is faithful!  “for He cannot deny himself”


Then, Prompt & Warn Them to Focus on Jesus (vs 14-19)

Ø  Keep “these things” in mind:  Jesus, godly ministry… (vs. 1-13)

Ø  Solemnly Warn them: “Stop! Avoid empty word wars!”
Minutia, myths, secondary matters. Not important doctrines.

§  They hinder ministry. Are  not profitable. 

§  They hurt others – catastrophe!  ~  “Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness.”  (vs. 23-25)


Ø  Work Hard to be a Certified Laborer before God

§  No reasons for shame. Not distorting, cutting corners
§  “Cutting it straight” as a teacher. Proper Word Handling.
§  Avoiding Worldly Chatter & Doctrinal Ditches
            Leads to more worldliness, lack of dedication (ungodliness)
                It is spiritual Ebola! Contaminates Christ’s Body (1 Cor. 12)
                Derails & Hurts other’s Faith. Instead, edify!  Eph. 4:29
                It’s an injustice His people should turn away from! (cf. Num. 16:5)
                                   

v  Are you a reliable Paul, Timothy; pleasing the Lord? vs. 1-7
v  Are you: Undistracted, obedient, diligent, keeping Jesus in mind?
v  Do you urge others to stay Jesus-focused; true to Him, His Word?
v  Are you a word-fighter or do you fight to know & obey His Word?  

 

Glad we have each other to remind each other,



Kerry



Friday, May 23, 2014

Make the Most of Every Gospel Opportunity!



Make  the Most of  Every  Gospel  Opportunity!
Start  with  Prayer

            Opportunity, it is said, only knocks once. True or not, we are to live ready to take advantage of God-given open doors, especially to share the gospel. Paul had this mindset when he wrote the believers in Colossae. They were to be prepared to live and speak in such ways that allow them to share Jesus with all kinds of people in any settings. Such readied-lives flow from prayer.

            “Continue steadfastly in prayer, being watchful in it with thanksgiving. At the same time, pray also for us, that God may open to us a door for the word, to declare the mystery of Christ, on account of which I am in prison—  that I may make it clear, which is how I ought to speak.  Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time.  Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” (Col. 4:2-6 ~ ESV) 

To Stay Gospel-Ready, Pray! 

                Devoted to it  - an imperative.   After the many duties in Col. 3 (put on / off,  wives, husbands, dads, kids, slaves, masters),  they are told to pray.  Much needed!  

Watchful, alert, en guard!  Life with eyes open, aware (4:12, Epaphras)

Thankful:  not just solemn soldiers, but thankful sons & daughters (3:15-17)

Pray for God’s Servants & Yourself:

For Opportunities:   Onesimus - an opportunity came to him

To be Christ-Centered: cf. 1:25-29 & the mystery, Christ’s hope for all!

To Stay Bold – press on, even if in chains  (Acts 16) 

For Clarity:  if Paul needed prayer for this . . .  

ü  Do you pray throughout the day (1 Thess. 5:16, 17; Eph. 6:10-20)?
ü  Is it “battle talk” all the time, or is thanks mixed in too?  See 3:15-17
ü  Pray for other’s spiritual maturity, not just physical well-being? See 1:9-14; 4:12  
ü  Talk to God about everything, all the time! Memorize Phil. 4:6 & 7.
ü  Afraid to witness? Pray for love, boldness and God-given chances.